He was very loving and caring

A visitor’s comment on a blog. The author writes that he had a relationship with a man at age 14.

Taken from the collection Positive Memories, compiled by T. Rivas.

Source: An anonymous poster contributed the following comment to a blog by “The Busybody”

I was 14 and had a relationship with an adult male and it was wonderful. He was very loving and caring. Not manipulative and aggressive. It wasn’t all about sex as most people would see it. I think the age of consent laws should be changed in the United States to allow responsible adolescent males to have relationships with older men. Notice the word responsible. Why is it every one thinks older males who are gay and are interested in some postpubescent males are monsters and perverts. It’s not all about that at all. Love happens,sex happens,life happens.